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Reading: Genesis 16:1-16

 

“Go back to your mistress and submit  to her” (Gen 16:9)

 

Hagar was ill-treated by Sarai and she decided to run  away from the  torture. But God’s design for her life was different. He wanted Hagar to go through the  discipline of submission. He wanted to break down her pride.  He wanted her to understand that the  child was His  gracious gift,  not her own.

 

Women  are  born  to suffer. There exists an enmity between the wily old serpent and  the  woman:  “I will put  enmity between you and the woman” (Gen 3:15). So he keeps attacking them. Youngsters suffer loss of parents or ill-treating and unloving parents. Studies is  a burden, too much for  their age.  Working women  have  their own problems. Married women  suffer in many  ways.  Widows have sufferings peculiar to their situation.

 

Nobody  wants to suffer. We all want a happy  carefree life. We feel if we run  away  from  our problems we will be relieved and  we can  enjoy  the  peace  we search for.  But God is more  interested in moulding us.  This  training will make mature Christians who will be able to teach others. God wants to build up our character. When we learn to give up our pride  and submit and love and accept, God will gently lead us out of the  situation. Till then for every problem ask  God, “Lord,  what do you want me  to  learn from  this?” Ask yourself, “If Jesus had been in my place, what would He have done?” Allow God to mould  you and make you profitable for His Kingdom. I don’t think young  Esther would  have  liked  to marry a married man with many wives, though he was the king. But she abandoned herself in God’s hand and  was used  of God mightily.

 

Cheer up.  Your deliverance  is  not far off.  Hagar not only understood that He was  the  God who saw  her,  but  in her trial she saw  the  One who saw  her (v13). God sees  your tears. But now is the  time  for you to see the  One who sees  you.

 

Hannah had  to go through mental torture. First of all  it  was waiting for a baby,  year  after year.  And then came  the  blow that Elkanah (probably)  decided  to take in another wife.

 

What prevented Hannah from going  back to her mother’s house to escape the suffering or end her life? Only her trust in God. She learnt prevailing prayer.

 

So, hang on, dear  one, let come what may!

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Reading: Genesis 16:1-16

 

“Go back to your mistress and submit  to her” (Gen 16:9)

 

Hagar was ill-treated by Sarai and she decided to run  away from the  torture. But God’s design for her life was different. He wanted Hagar to go through the  discipline of submission. He wanted to break down her pride.  He wanted her to understand that the  child was His  gracious gift,  not her own.

 

Women  are  born  to suffer. There exists an enmity between the wily old serpent and  the  woman:  “I will put  enmity between you and the woman” (Gen 3:15). So he keeps attacking them. Youngsters suffer loss of parents or ill-treating and unloving parents. Studies is  a burden, too much for  their age.  Working women  have  their own problems. Married women  suffer in many  ways.  Widows have sufferings peculiar to their situation.

 

Nobody  wants to suffer. We all want a happy  carefree life. We feel if we run  away  from  our problems we will be relieved and  we can  enjoy  the  peace  we search for.  But God is more  interested in moulding us.  This  training will make mature Christians who will be able to teach others. God wants to build up our character. When we learn to give up our pride  and submit and love and accept, God will gently lead us out of the  situation. Till then for every problem ask  God, “Lord,  what do you want me  to  learn from  this?” Ask yourself, “If Jesus had been in my place, what would He have done?” Allow God to mould  you and make you profitable for His Kingdom. I don’t think young  Esther would  have  liked  to marry a married man with many wives, though he was the king. But she abandoned herself in God’s hand and  was used  of God mightily.

 

Cheer up.  Your deliverance  is  not far off.  Hagar not only understood that He was  the  God who saw  her,  but  in her trial she saw  the  One who saw  her (v13). God sees  your tears. But now is the  time  for you to see the  One who sees  you.

 

Hannah had  to go through mental torture. First of all  it  was waiting for a baby,  year  after year.  And then came  the  blow that Elkanah (probably)  decided  to take in another wife.

 

What prevented Hannah from going  back to her mother’s house to escape the suffering or end her life? Only her trust in God. She learnt prevailing prayer.

 

So, hang on, dear  one, let come what may!

  Address for Correspondence Contributions

Dr. Lilian Stanley
13 Church Colony
Vellore 632006, India
 +91 9843511943
  lilianstanley@gmail.com

Blessing Youth Mission

Blessing Youth Mission
13 Church Colony
Vellore 632006, India
 +91-416-2242943, +91-416-2248943
  hq@bymonline.org
  www.bymonline.org

For Donation & Contributions...

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Name: Blessing Youth Mission
Account Type: Current Account
A/c No.: 37268642054
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Branch: Siruthozhil,Vellore - 632 006
IFSC No.: SBIN0007274

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A/c Name: T.Dickson Daniel Moses
Account Type: Saving Account
A/c No.: 35374362080
Bank: State Bank of India
Branch: Siruthozhil,Vellore - 632 006
IFSF: SBIN0007274

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